Days With Mama / November 29, 2020

My Favorite Toys for a Toddler

Children can learn so much from watching their parents or caregivers or doing everyday tasks. When we first bought this for our house we did not even have a child; but we did have a toddler niece who really loved playing with the different tools. For a few years, until we had our own child we decided that this would be nice when we did have a child so that they could discover “play cleaning” as well.

Our child loves playing with this toy. He is absolutely in love with watching everyone else clean, he loves pretending to sweep with the broom or “brush” everyone’s hair with the duster. This toy has allowed him to play clean while I am cleaning the house and I would highly suggest it for any toddler!

The leaf blower is a toy that we bought for our nephew for his second birthday. His dad is a caretaker and so we thought it would be a super fun way for him to be like his dad and use his leaf blower at the same time as his dad.

It is one of those toys that is loud and so it is a great gift to give because the child gets so much joy out of it, but you might not love buying it for your own child.

That is what I thought until my child loved playing with his cousins leaf blower so my husband bought it for our child as well. When he first opened the leaf blower he did not really want to play with it that much. I decided to make him fake leaves using ripped up pieces of construction paper and he then started to enjoy this toy because it actually blows a tiny amount of air that made the paper fly around.

He really started falling in love with this toy when we had to get rid of all the leaves in our backyard and get them to the street for leaf pick-up and he was so excited to use his leaf blower just like we were using the actual one.

Our son received this tee and baseball set for his first birthday from his Godfather. He was so excited to see it but then had no idea what to do with the bat or ball. With the help of his dad he was able to use the bat and ball and place it on the tee and pretend to hit it.

It was not long before he started using the tee and put any and every ball he could find on the tee so that he could try to hit it off with his bat. He has gotten so much better at swinging the bat and hitting the ball over the past few months.

Overall, he loves this toy and it is a great first start to introduce your child to baseball if you want something that can be used indoors or outdoors.

This slide has been so great for his gross motor skills! I put it on the list for his birthday. I did not really pay attention to how big it was and I was a little surprised when I opened it and it was so large.

Our son quickly found out that it was so fun to go down the slide with or without assistance. It took him only two days to find out that he could climb up the slide without anyone helping him and go down it alone! Of course we were right next to him and always kept a hand an inch from his back in case he started to fall or slip, yet he surprised us and was great at going up and down it alone!

We used it in the house as he received it in the fall, at it was a bit chilly to be using it outside. After a few weeks he started to try to climb back up the slide instead of going down it so it became something that we would let him do every few days instead of every day and then we put it in the garage until the spring.

One of the best things that he received before his first birthday was the farm set. This was a set that most children play with for a short time and then they get bored of the different parts of it. Our son loved this and his favorite animal has been the horse for months. He took it on car rides, when he goes up for a nap he loves to have it with him.

This set gave us a wonderful opportunity to teach him the names of animals and what sound they made. The easiest by far was the cow, as it is easy for a child to say “moo”. He then liked the sheep with saying “baa”. Recently he has started saying “cluck, cluck” for the chicken.

This set is both fun and helps your child develop skills that they will use for many years to come.

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Delicious and Simple Eats / November 23, 2020

Simple and Delicious Ways to Feed Your Small Gathering this Year for Thanksgiving

November and December are usually the months when I start thinking of holiday plans. It is when we plan for whichever holiday we have to spend out of state with my husbands side of the family.

Before having a child it was stressful with travel and rushing around to see everyone in a few days time, but after the birth of our son it became complicated on a whole new level.

Someone is always feeling left out when we travel and it means our babe misses a holiday with half his family every time.

Last year we travelled for Christmas and this year it was supposed to be for Thanksgiving. On one hand we are sad we miss a holiday with his family but on the other hand we are just doing our best to keep everyone safe.

So I wanted to share some tips and tricks I’ll be using this year to help prepare Thanksgiving dinner for a small gathering. If everyone would have come for our normal dinner we would have over 15 including children.

So this year we are scaling things back! Here are my top five tips for you!

  1. Figure out how many people you are gathering with and decide how much food they will eat or how many leftovers will be used. So instead of making a huge amount of food or whatever your “normal” was, if people in your group do not really enjoy leftovers, why spend all the extra time making them?
  2. Base what you are serving around what you like and enjoy! If you always make a dish or two that no one eats, or that you make simply because you feel like you HAVE to, this is the year to break out of that mold! You get to decide! If everyone likes stuffing and squash, but no one likes rolls or cranberry etc.; instead of forcing the making of them just skip it!
  3. Determine what will bring you JOY! Do you love cooking and baking? Then, by all means go for it! Yet, if you would prefer a frozen pizza or wings or a salad just do what you need to make your life happy. So many times we get wrapped up in the holidays and feel like we have to be or do or want because everyone else seems like they do, guess what? You can just do what you want and you do not have to apologize.
  4. Stay safe. Whatever that may mean for you and your loved ones, choose the option that makes you happy and keeps you safe! This year has been different than most, yet brought so many people closer together because they could not be together in person. Have a happy day!
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Delicious and Simple Eats / November 5, 2020

Easy Dinner or Lunch Idea with Little Ones

One of my favorite dishes to cook up with a little one is turkey taco salad. There is nothing easier than using one skillet and one cutting board! This meal can be made with any meat you choose (or none if you prefer that)!

Ingredients:

1 lb ground turkey

1 head Romaine lettuce

2 tomatoes

1 onion

1 c shredded cheese

1 pepper diced

Sour cream, avocado, salsa or any other toppings of your choice

2 TB water

Taco seasoning (I prefer paleo homemade seasoning to store brand)

Directions:

  • Heat turkey in skillet over medium high heat until no longer pink.
  • Add taco seasoning to meat with 2 TB water and simmer until mixed together well.
  • Cut all veggies to size you prefer.
  • Warm tortillas or just place on bed of lettuce and top and serve!

This is a super easy and fun meal for a kiddo because I know he will eat the avocado, tomato and a tiny bit of tortilla for sure so I just prepare his while I am making mine!

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Days With Mama / November 5, 2020

Decorating with Kids

As a parent who was once a teacher I feel all the pulls to decorate with my son. It’s hard sometimes to remember that he is just only over one, so there isn’t a ton he can do.

We decorated for Fall/Halloween at the end of October. It was a fun memory together I used Saran Wrap on his tray for his high chair and then just gave him paper cut outs of pumpkins to decorate with paint pens (kid safe) and then with actual paint.

It went over well until he decided to lick one of the paint pens…that was far from delightful! Yet, he had so much fun and there was so much joy during his art time!

I know some parents shy away from arts and crafts and decorating with littles because it can be MESSY!!!

From experience I can tell you that this may be the case! Yet, learning and developing is so important with littles! It is so important for them to experience different textures and to get hands on experience with their parents/caregivers on helping to decorate.

Here are some tips on decorating with little ones!

  • Have all supplies ready before you begin, including clean up supplies!
  • Cut out all shapes beforehand for extra little ones!
  • Use paint pens from Crayola as they are great for clean up and do not cause as much of a mess as paint brushes.
  • Only use paint that is safe for little ones, if your babe might have a chance of putting it in their mouth make sure it’s safe…or make it yourself!
  • Base activities and decorating on their fine motor skills! (If they can rip paper, then do that! If they can cut it then let them!)
  • Give them options. Do not only give them one color to choose from! They should be able to explore!
  • If you do not like messes, maybe try one craft or decoration at a time. If you’re overwhelmed, chances are no one will have fun!
  • Let them explore!!!!
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Days With Mama, Quick and Easy Workouts / August 14, 2020

My Top Ten Tips for Working out with a Toddler

Before I had my baby I always thought that he would be just that; a baby until he was like 2! Of course I knew he wouldn’t, but I never expected the baby phase to fly by so quickly.

When your baby is walking months before they turn a year old your entire world changes. You suddenly have to be on guard every second, looking for items your child can stuff into their mouth; aka day old minute pieces of food they magically find, watching for them to fall and looking for every edge they “might” bump into (ever want to get rid of furniture? That wooden bench, that wooden table, that chair?? Now is THE time!)

I love my workouts each day and have since I was cleared to workout after delivery.

At first they were pretty easy to get done while he was happily swinging, or bouncing until he grew out of them!

I’ve picked out a list of my top 10 things you can do to make working out with a toddler easier! So you can get your workout done and know they are safe. Maybe you can workout while they are sleeping or once your significant other comes home, but if not-try these ideas!

  1. Plan ahead and get your workout gear ready to go the night before. After a short night or waking up early, it is so much easier to stick to your workout plan by SEEING your clothes laid out. It gives you a reason to put them on and it’s so much faster to do than to shuffle around through drawers or shelves looking for something for the workout with a little one waking around.
  2. Clean up your workout space. This doesn’t have to be a room makeover or anything fancy. I spent a day rearranging our basement family room so I have a huge area I can work out in, he can play in and I am able to see him at all times.
  3. Block the getaway exits! When you live in a multi-level house with odd angles so baby gates just don’t work you have to become creative on blocking stairs. I love that my little one can crawl up the stairs but I also want to be able to get my workouts done in a timely manner and do not exactly LOVE rushing around and following him up the stairs repeatedly during them. So, I use a basket and pillows to block the stairs, so if he tries to go that direction they will block him as well as protect him.
  4. Do not be afraid to let them eat while you workout. Kiddos love watching you, so why not give them a show? Some mornings I can prep his breakfast and then get everything set up and he can eat while I workout. This works best on quick workout days, not those longer workouts.
  5. Have your weights set out of your child’s reach. My weights used to sit on the basement floor, of course tucked next to the tv stand, until the day my little one tried to pick up an 8 lb weight. Instantly I chose a new place for the weights, in a room he couldn’t enter unless he was with one of us so there could be no fingers smashed or tears if he tried to grab them. This works great, but I still have to haul my weights out for each workout and put them away after. I now put them on the couch during the workouts where he can’t reach them, and it’s one extra little step for me but the peace of mind to know he can’t reach them is worth it.
  6. Find a workout buddy! My mom has started working out with me some days and that has been great! She and I workout and also work together to talk to and help little man find new toys so that we can get in shape all while he is around.
  7. Put your little ones music on. Maybe you want to workout to your favorite playlist, or you like working out in silence, whatever it may be if you put some songs on for your little one they might be more inclined to dance instead of fuss if your workout is a few minutes longer than normal. I have a few go-tos that I know he can dance to and loves!
  8. Have a play area near your workout area. My workout area and his play area happen to be in the same big space and this has been perfect lately. I can watch him, workout and know what he is playing with each day.
  9. Use your little one in your workout! I have had days when he does not want to be put down no matter what so instead of getting frustrated or giving up, I have just modified and carried him around during the moves for my workout. He LOVES it and laughs and I think really enjoys doing what Mama is doing!
  10. Be kind to yourself. If you’re anything like me, I try to do it all. The dishes, cleaning, laundry, taking care of little man, cooking all the meals, meal planning and prepping and working out. You know what? There are some days when I want to do nothing, some days I am exhausted but I know a workout will make me feel better. On those days it’s not about how perfect my workout is. It is about the fact that I chose to do something for my body! If you have days where you just get a walk in or you carry around your little one all day. That is OKAY. You are worthy of rest and listening to your body!
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Days With Mama / August 14, 2020

I’m cooking….but what can baby do?

In the last few months my little one has transitioned from baby to basically a little man. He went from laying in his little seat and swing, to using a bouncy seat to now just walking everywhere!

It has been incredibly exciting watching his transitions and I am so proud of him! Even though this is exciting, I still have to get things done! I can’t always be playing on the floor or helping him discover new toys.

That brings me to when I am cooking or doing dishes in the kitchen. I try to plan my kitchen work around when he is going to eat so he can be in his high chair, I can entertain him and he can be a happy little man.

The best plans don’t always work though. Do they?

So I’ve discovered that by using things that are ALREADY in my kitchen he can learn so much!

Here are a few things I have done and will continue to do so that he can have fun and also I can get things done in the kitchen with him!

  • Pick a Cupboard: this might be scary for some parents, having their child given the ability to open a cupboard door, and pull things out, however it has been such a learning tool. I have been able to show my little one how to open a door, close it gently, pull things out and play with them and put them away after. We have baby locks on 99% of our cupboards, especially those with cleaning supplies in them or heavy objects. Yet, (we have a TINY kitchen) I have one cupboard that no matter what I am doing I can see what my child is playing with and he has discovered so many fun things all on his own this way.
  • Let them Play: maybe it sounds obvious? One of the biggest things that helps with imagination and development is allowing children to discover things on their own. The first time he played with bowls on the floor, he got them out and he stacked a few, smashed another few together to hear the sound and just played with them. Part of me probably didn’t love the smashing them together sound but he wasn’t hurting anything, was enjoying it and he found out that some fit inside others.
  • Do not be Afraid to say No!: if your child is running over pick up something that they definitely should not be playing with be sure to let them know. Help them understand when something is not safe for them. At the same time, it’s been freeing to let my child make discoveries and play on his own for little chunks of time. I have the ability to make him feel bad for playing a container or spoon or I can encourage him to discover uses for them.
  • Use your Words: one of the best things that you can do for your little one while they play is to comment on what they are doing. “I see you playing with a bowl! That bowl is blue!” Something as simple as those sentences can help build your child’s vocabulary!

Now, back to what I mentioned before. If you aren’t comfortable letting your little one make discoveries and you don’t have only items that are safe for them to play with DO NOT let them play in the kitchen with you.

My kitchen is super small which allows me to always have him within arms length and never out of my sight. I still watch him like a hawk and often times have to pick him up and show him what I’m doing, washing dishes, loading dishwasher, putting things away. I never hold anything sharp or leave out anything sharp while he is in kitchen. There is no safety in things that are hot or sharp being available for a little one to stumble upon.

The last fun little idea is to give them a fun challenge during snack time. We practiced putting one of his blueberries under a silicone measuring cup, then him lifting off cup to eat it. He laughed and was so excited, all the while I knew this was building his skill set. He also on his own discovered that a larger measuring cup would sit on top of and “hide” the smaller cup and he could repeat what I did with the blueberries on his own with just the cups.

Little ones are so much fun, the possibilities of what you can use to help them discover their world are endless, just start somewhere!

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Days With Mama / July 7, 2020

3 Unconventional Toy Ideas for Babies in a Kiddie Pool

Our little one just turned 10 months today! We have been spending the past two though getting in as much fresh air as we can! Recently, we were given a kiddie pool and he LOVED it on day one. By day two he loved it for all of 10 minutes and into day three and four we were lucky if he didn’t try to stand up and crawl out within the first 30 seconds!

Being a former teacher my brain immediately went to finding toys he could play with that would be both fun and easy to clean up.

Here is a list of my top 3 favorite “toys” I have given him and that he has enjoyed!

  • Ice cube trays-I never imagined this would be such a great toy until I tried it! He loved using them to splash down into the water to make the water fly everywhere, he also loves if I hold them up and pour water from one into the next, it’s like a mini fountain.
  • Plastic balls-For Christmas he got a little blow up bathtub for trips that was filled with plastic balls; (think ball pit balls) and those have become some of his favorite toys as he can hold them, grab them daily and they float well!
  • Plastic Glasses-A few years back we purchased plastic glasses at a grocery store up North for less than a dollar a glass. He loves the bright colors and the ability to pour the water from them into the pool.

Now as most parents quickly realize, anything can become a toy for your child, though it is super important to make sure that the toy is still safe for them and age appropriate.

Water safety is the most vital part of letting your kid use a kiddie pool or be around any water for that matter. Never forget to keep the water shallow and have your child’s at arm length. Sure it can be fun having pictures of your little ones first swim, but never sacrifice that for their safety!

Enjoy the warm weather!

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Days With Mama-The Beginning / June 9, 2020

How it Feels to Not Contribute Financially

It has been nearly nine months since I made the life changing decision to stay home with my baby instead of heading back to work. Sometimes I think it would be easy to fill novels with all the thoughts and ideas I have had while raising my son.

My husband and I had been toying the idea of me not returning to work back and forth when we first found out I was pregnant but I had a firm decision made up that I was 100% returning to work.

After the birth of our son, and a few changes at home I ended up leaving my career to raise my son myself.

Since we had planned on my return to work once my maternity leave had ended we did not have much savings in the bank.

I love budgeting and have become quite good at planning our spending and savings out through the upcoming two or three months.

It always feels like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop. Waiting for a huge bill to come or a month where maybe we don’t get as much money from my husbands work.

It took nearly three months of intense budgeting for me to finally feel like we have a little bit saved so that going forward we will be able to pay for things like a new car seat or any upcoming bills we may have.

I have come to this realization that regardless of how much I do at home I’ll always feel like I’m less because I don’t contribute financially. I’m trying as best as I can to find ways to sell old clothes or shoes to help out a little bit here and there, but for those people who aren’t contributing financially, just know you should be appreciated for what you can bring to the relationship.

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Days With Mama / May 5, 2020

What I’ve Learned About Being a Mama During Quaratine

Have you learned something new about yourself or your needs during this time of quarantine? I sure have! I have so much love and appreciation for all those who have had to work throughout these changing times as well as those fighting to keep everyone the safest they can.

I have always been someone who probably thinks about every decision way more than I should. I second guess myself or think about decisions long after I’ve made them. For example, when buying new outfit for my husband or little one I put items in the cart and go back and forth for days before finally choosing the one that is perfect. (Then I think of all the reasons it might not be…and start over).

A huge part of my life has been making lists and accomplishing items of it throughout the days or weeks. As a teacher I always had a running list that I started the day school let out and it continued through the next spring. It was items I knew I could accomplish and more difficult tasks like creating curriculum or revamping my tiered teaching that I wanted to get done. Seeing my to-dos in list form has always made them easier in my mind. It’s just words on a paper that I can cross off instead of the entire task overwhelming me.

During this quarantine I have found myself so many times thinking about how I am spending my days. I am in no way comparing my journey through this with anyone who is fighting the fight out there; I just have a lot of reasons to come out of this changed.

The amount of lists I have created during this quarantine is over 20. I have made lists of daily to-dos, weekly and even monthly items.

Some of my lists have been scribbled in notebooks or more carefully written on a board outside my kitchen…yet I keep having this nagging feeling that this isn’t what I want to come out of quarantine thinking about. I don’t want to remember all the LISTS.

So here is my final list of what I’ve learned about being a mama during this all:

  • I’ve learned that I need to give myself grace. I do not have to get all the laundry or dishes done in one day.
  • I can let someone else make dinner and not feel like I have let anyone down.
  • I’m a really great cook/baker and I miss having an audience to give my food to so they can try and critique it.
  • I generally hate hugs, but I miss them. I miss just having a moment where someone else asks how I am doing.
  • I am a better and more fun mama when I get the chance to relax.
  • I need more me-time or time when I’m not solely focused on other people’s happiness in order to recharge.
  • I have so much to be thankful for, healthy family and friends, phones and video calls.
  • I have never loved the sunshine more than now, my favorite moments have quickly become long walks with my hubby and little man.
  • I’m thankful for every second I am able to spend with my healthy son. I cannot imagine those parents going through the worst of things and not being able to hold their children. I have the privilege to be a mama to the sweetest little one and I’m not taking anything for granted. Midnight wake-ups, I got it! Extra snuggles before nap time-count me in!
  • I have also realized that maybe doing everything yourself is maybe not the key to happiness. It might make everyone else’s life go more smoothly, yet it takes a toll.

Whenever we get to hug our family and feel safe heading into the next chapter of our lives I have this one wish for myself.

TO NEVER MISS A MOMENT

Instead of taking a picture on my phone I want to be in the moment. Instead of spending all day rushing around cooking, cleaning, and being busy I want to slow down and smile at my baby. He knows nothing of what is happening and I pray he stays healthy and happy. I want to feel like I have lived my life instead of rushing through it, worried, stressed and frustrated.

Remember Mamas-this is changing everyone’s lives, and it is important to remember that you’re going through something different than anyone else, but this is your story.

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Days With Mama-The Beginning / April 22, 2020

Tasty, Healthy, Vegan 🌱

Have you ever just craved something fresh, something you can feel great about eating? I refused to eat meat for about 5 or 6 years when I was growing up. I went out to eat and either ordered fries or nachos. Every. Single. Time.

I spent 3 summers working at a camp in college and I ate apples, dried cereal and the occasional cup of ice cream. It was my second summer when I started dating my future husband and he made me a burger. My world changed. It was so juicy and delicious. I will never forget it. He encouraged me to branch out and try all different types of meat, and gave me the chance to experience more flavors and food than I would have without him.

Even though those summers of plain eating, no meat and a small rotation of food are in the distant past I still enjoy a meal sans meat on occasion.

Here are five delicious vegan recipes that you can feel good about eating!

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